One of the four factors of effective leadership is integrity and an important element of integrity is character. I like the definition that character is who you are when no one is looking.
If you doubt the importance of a leader's character and integrity, and many do, just take a few moments to examine the fallout from New York Governor Eliot Spitzer's recent involvement with prostitutes.
It is important to consider who you really are when no one is looking because, at some point, people might be looking. Right now, people are examining who Eliot Spitzer was when he thought no one was looking and what they are finding is undermining his ability to lead.
One helpful guide for making ethical decisions is the newspaper test. Before doing anything that might be unethical ask yourself a simple question. "Would I want anyone to read about this in tomorrow's newspaper?" If the answer is no, then don't do it. This isn't just a hypothetical exercise, as Spitzer's situation demonstrates, it is quite possible that your actions will actually end up in the newspaper or on a blog or on Youtube or on the local news.
Additionally, Spitzer's actions are especially damaging because, as Attorney General of New York, he built a reputation for integrity. Ironically, he was responsible for exposing prostitution rings during his tenure.
Furthermore, as a father of three young girls, I was saddened when I learned that Spitzer also has three daughters. Regardless of the political ramifications, this revelation will have a terrible impact on his family, especially on his girls and their relationship with their father and other men in the future. His actions also send a terrible message to girls everywhere about the value of women and the way they should be treated in our society.
Lest this seem like a partisan attack on a Democratic Governor, it is important to note that many Democrats have criticized Spitzer's actions. Moreover, the Republicans are no strangers to sexual impropriety, as the recent actions of Republican Senators David Vitter and Larry Craig clearly demonstrate.