WTF (What the Freak) is Johnny Bunko? Part 3
If you missed the first two installments, here are the links to Part 1 and Part 2.
As a follow-up to Factor 4, Improvement, I did a seminar called GROW! Ten Strategies for Maximizing Your Leadership Potential, which has become one of the bestselling business DVDs on Amazon.com. You can watch a brief video clip here.
One of the ten strategies is "try to fail." I encourage people to take risks, to push the boundaries of their competence, to recognize that growth requires change and the risk of failure. This message is consistent with the fifth lesson from Johnny Bunko.
Lesson #5: Make excellent mistakes.
Diana, Johnny's career advisor, puts it this way. "Too many people spend their time avoiding mistakes. They're so concerned about being wrong, about messing up, that they never try anything -- which means they never do anything. . . The most successful people make spectacular mistakes." (You need to read the book to learn about the difference between stupid mistakes and spectacular ones).
Have you tried to fail lately? Have you purposefully attempted something that had a high potential for failure? As my friend Mike reminds us, great rewards often involve great risks.
I love it when one of my friends, who has listened to GROW! tells me that they are "trying to fail." My friend Stosh does this the most often (trying to fail, not failing). It has become a shorthand way for us to tell the other person that we are trying to grow, trying to succeed, taking a chance, pushing the limits, by trying to fail.
I used to measure my life by my successes. Now I look at how many times I've tried to do something big, even when I couldn't guarantee success. That list is getting pretty long, but I'm not ashamed. I'm proud that I am testing the limits of my abilities. Here is a short list of my recent failures.
- Failing to get an agent for my Freak Factor book (20 rejections and counting)
- Not getting hired to do a large conference presentation for Johnson & Johnson
- Missing my time goal for a 50 kilometer run
- Having my proposal rejected for another major conference
Do you have a list? Are you trying to fail? I'd encourage you to take Dan's advice and "make excellent mistakes."
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